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Featured in VICE's Slutever "Ecosexuality"

Featured in Barcroft TV Special on Polyamory

The Sexually Liberated Woman Podcast

Living Open Podcast

Sometimes it’s not doing.
Sometimes it’s listening.
Sometimes it’s pausing.
Sometimes it’s letting dissolve where body ends and earth begins. 🌿🌿🌿
This foot was woven with ink by @houseofarulu yesterday as coyotes howled! Wiggling my toes has been a practice of returning to my body when it wants to leave in wheels of anxiety. We are adorning them as reminder that my own feet can help regulate and soothe my nervous system. Words like self soothing don’t feel quite right because the practice isn’t desiring to gain independence, but to remember inherent connection. Inherent belonging. 🕷
Photos may or may not be coming soon. Either way, follow @houseofarulu she is living art.

Femmes can be thems. Yesterday was yay pronoun day! While I’m flexible with my close ones using she/her for me, more and more I feel most affirmed when you use the pronouns “they/them.” As someone who has felt very feminine in so many ways most of my life, I feel icky about the association of my femininity making me “a good woman” by dominator cultural standards. And at the same time, dominator culture hates and devalues femmes and femininity! I just want to be human and be ME... and I just really love all things feminine.. which is always changing and there is masculine within me and throughout my feminine. There is both/and fuckery. It feels right in my bones to explore myself without the labels of what a woman should be. So I’m feminine, but/and it’s not a part of womanhood, it’s just me being human. So hey! I’m luna. I’m non binary and suuuuuper femme and cyclical and receptive and soft and squishy and emotional and adorable. Love me. Pay me. Respect me. Yay. #femmescanbethems #pronoundsday

There is not a universal objective space that is safe. We were all taught differently on what safety looks like. This is something we talked about in @aidamanduley workshop on transformative justice. For example, some white people were taught safety comes from security cameras, fences, and the police, while some people of color were taught that being mean was how to stay safe from white people. Some people’s mere presence, like if they are upper class presenting, masculine centering, and/or white, its very normal to elicit fear for others. This isn’t just “ah everyone is so triggered these days.” It’s a legacy of white supremacy. It’s countless different power dynamics, micro aggressions, gas lighting and generations of trauma. So, I encourage you, especially if you are a teacher/leader/some type of space holder/person with more power, to not say “this is a safe space.” Rather, address and work towards dismantling the power dynamics in the space by centering the most marginalized. Yeah, easier said than done. I fuck up. Heck, this post may be triggering. I don’t know where it originated from, but the term “brave space” is often a better description to use when creating containers to talk about inherently triggering topics like sex, trauma, race, gender, money, death, power. My Instagram is definitely an experimental brave space where I’m always learning. In general though, if you notice you have less power than others in the space and it feels right for you, speak up. if you have more power in the space, listen. Also, ask people how they feel safe rather than telling them how they feel! normalize vulnerability. Practice using l-statements, like “I feel so moved by your share” rather than “you are so brave!” The latter is a form of labeling people. Don’t assume someone’s gender identity. It’s not matter of if we will make mistakes.
it’s as to when. That’s okay, own up to them. There is so much here. It is so nuanced. And it matters. You matter.
From a soothed nervous system,
Love,
lu lu
What makes a space feel safe for you?

Want some silky, sensual edgy electronic music for your sex magic rituals, or for reinhabiting your body or just because music is fucking healing?! Well,
I curated another playlist for you. I know the full blood/harvest moon is past... I was busy doing the practice of nothing... and literally howling at it. Link in my bio to listen to all of my sensual playlists🐆🕷🦋🦇https://www.lunadietrich.com/full-moon-playlist

How it all began. #pussywitch

🌟 @rachel.cargle 🌟
May this message sink into our bones. 🔥 —How do you let the fear of not being liked and/or being perceived as not being nice get in the way of speaking up, taking action, and disrupting racism?

Okay I’ve posted this before BuTttt now I have a blue-staining bolete playmate to share the message with. NATURE IS QUEER. Fungi have THOUSANDS of sexes that can all mate with each other, dolphins fuck even when they can’t conceive, and homosexual behavior is found in every major animal group. Oh, and rainbows and narwhals exists. I mean, come on, nature is clearly magical and very, very queer. 🌈🐬⭐️#wearestardust #queernature #queerecology #thisisntnew #ancestralwisdom #ecosexual #polypore
Wanna share with us any other examples of how nature is queer?

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